On Being the Best

So many of us are looking to be the best and it is great that we make this conscious choice. It all falls apart when we look to be the best “compared” to someone or something.

So many of us go through life wanting to be the best compared to one another. We have as evolution forgotton who we are to such an extent that the only way to be the best is to be better than who ever has what we are after. For example you want your body to look better than the other person in the gym. You want to have the best car, better than your neighbour, and this even extends to money.

Being the best is a personal journey and different for every single individual. It is growing your own self awareness. It is not linked to any monetary or material possession whatsoever.

What is your connection with your source I ask? The majority of people lost their connection with this the moment they started comparing themselves to one another. The then created a snowstorm of disconnection and the only way you could realise your position and status on this planet was to compare.

Next time you realise you are comparing your “being the best” to someone else it might be worth taking a seat and just watching the thought. It is useless energy being wasted with this thought. It is merely a distraction pushing you more and more away from who you are.

Who are you and the blog on comparison will be dealt with in future posts.

For now, realise that you are the best. The way you are now is not like any other human being on this planet. Realise that you are perfect in every way. If you feel you have a big nose which I did at some point drop the thought. Big compared to who?

If you feel you are fat I have always said there are two things to do about it. Realise the concept of duality and that in the world of the moment there is not fat or skinny. The other option is DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

Join a gym, go running, however when you there do not compare yourself to those who have slim size 8 bodies. This will just bring your self esteem down further.

You are perfect the way you are. There is nothing wrong or right with you. Just be. Look at your body naked in the mirror and realise the beauty given to you. It is a great gift to wake in the morning with gratitude with what you have and have not. Go and do it, it may feel weird initially; however once you go past the weirdness barrier good things start to happen.

You are beautiful,



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