Thursday 8 November 2007

Why Women Sell Their Bodies and Men Pay For Sex

In the land of Love, we accept all without judgment, however we shall be talking from a different prospective today.

What did you want to be when you grew up? A Fireman, A Heart Surgeon, a Pilot, A Vet? What did you really jump up with joy when asked the question “What did you want to be when you grew up”? Are you that person, now, if not what happened?

You are born a shining star, a flower, always on the move, curious, happy, excited and most importantly you had ambition and passion in everything you did?

Slowly but surely you started to get challenged and started to be told you cannot do this and you cannot do that. You were told from a society prospective the meaning of failure and that when you set to do something and you do not achieve it is it failure.

Your conscious started to get attacked, your unconscious started to be transformed from the teaching from our families, friends, TV, books and so on. We slowly forgot our passion and desire for our ambition as we grew older and started to settle for less or average.

The seed of “hope” was planted into our heads, and then the lottery was created. The “hope” that with $1, Euro1, £1 you could maybe, just maybe win MILLIONS.

You forgot your ambition, you gave up just a little to early. Had you just gone on that little bit longer, you would have seen the light at the end of the tunnel.

You lost your values, your integrity, self respect and your own key morals.

Women sell their bodies as it can be seen as profession and some love what they do. Some, however simply do not.

These people are the ones that have lost not hope, but have lost faith. They to once had a dream.

How many women do you honestly think at the age of five say “Daddy, I want to be a working girl”?

How many boys at the age of seven say “Mummy, I want to pay for sex or be a pimp”.

Sure, in the world of no reason and the present moment, there is nothing wrong and the question is not whether it is right or wrong, however more a case of what may have happened.

At some point in your life, you were hurt somewhere and this changed your entire perception of both men and women.

A women was once cheated by from her boyfriend and beaten around. A year later she turned into a prostitute. Why, I do not know, however somewhere along the line her thoughts towards men changed, and she became a working girl.

A guy, did not have the confidence to go and find a girlfriend, so he uses the easy method and exchanges paper for sex. This is nothing other than short term gain. In the long run both parties lose out bigtime.

Women – You need no man to tell you that you look beautiful. You do not need confirmation from anyone. When you dress up and go out and look all fantastic with your make up, do not go out to compare yourself to other women. Be yourself and enjoy yourself.

So many times I will be out and the when I start speaking to these women, I slowly get them to a place there never thought existed. That inner beauty, where the heart starts singing and the inner voice and ego is quieted down by the music of the heart.

Do not sell yourself under any circumstances. You are better than this and you know it. Look at yourself in the mirror and I always say this…..say “I LOVE YOU”.

Men
– Go out there and believe that you can get any women you set your mind to and there is no need to pay for sex. Be masculine men which you are and that women love and start conversations. Do not be wiped out of existence for your mere stupidity.

Start believing in yourself. Start believing that you can do anything you set your mind too. Find your ambition and go for it whatever it takes.

Hell is not this place you disappear to where the fire burns till eternity. Hell is merely not living out your dream.

Start living your passion and do not settle for anything else.




Consigno

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